My definition of femininity is that of humanity, as a woman. Confucianism is the moral authority that insists on every woman to aspire to embody the ideal Confucian aesthetics of beauty and who is patient, obedient, self-sacrificing and silent. Confucianism suggests that there is only one image of a good woman. The virtue of Confucianism often becomes the violent obstacle for the woman who is trying to find her true self.